If you claim to be a feminist and you shame girls for wanting to do traditional things like take their husband’s last name or be a house wife then you are doing it all completely wrong.
Feminism isn’t an elite group who defeats gender norms, it’s a group who accepts ALL women’s choices.
SEES SELF: as a patient resource for people who in need of his or her service and care.
OVERRIDING NEED: to be a loyal friend, a competent caretaker, to be needed and of service to others.
IRRITATED BY: people who are rude, argumentative, late, noisy, sloppy, showy or who fail to prepare for situations.
STRENGTHS: intensely loyal, strong sense of duty, diligent, protective and very patient.
SEEN BY OTHERS: neat, charming, dutiful, obedient, perhaps too modest and serious.
DECIDES carefully, step by step based on facts as they affect people, dislikes risks.
IRRITATES OTHERS: by saying ‘yes’ too often and then resenting it, complaining behind people’s backs.
CHALLENGES: may allow themselves to become the doormats of whatever situation in which they find themselves.